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Almost everyone has
heard the hit single 'Don't Worry, Be Happy' by Bobby McFerrin.
The song has a very catchy way of conveying its message of being
happy to everyone. Bobby Mcferiin's simple message surely made a
lot of people by telling them not to worry.
Living a happy, resilient and optimistic life is wonderful, and is
also good for your health. Being happy actually protects you from
the stresses of life.
Stress is linked to top
causes of death such as heart
disease, cancer and stroke. One of the better
things ever said is - 'The only thing in life that will always
remain the same is change', and in our life we have the power to
make the necessary changes if we want to.
Even if we find
ourselves in an unbearable situation we can always find solace in
the knowledge that it too would change.
Social networks or relationships are essential to happiness.
People are different, accept people for who or what they are,
avoid clashes, constant arguments, and let go of all kinds of
resentments.
If arguments seem unavoidable still try and make an
effort to understand the situation and you might just get along
with well with
Happiness is actually found in everyone, increasing it is a way to
make a life more wonderful and also more healthy.
To be happy is relatively easy, just decide to be a happy person.
Abraham Lincoln observed that most people for most of the time can
choose how happy or stressed, how relaxed or troubled, how bright
or dull their outlook to be. The choice is simple really, choose
to be happy.
There are several ways by which you can do this.
Being grateful is a great attitude. We have so much to be thankful
for. Thank the taxi driver for bringing you home safely, thank the
cook for a wonderful dinner and thank the guy who cleans your
windows.
Also thank the mailman for bringing you your mails, thank
the policeman for making your place safe and thank God for being
alive.
News is stressful. Get less of it. Some people just can't start
their day without their daily dose of news. Try and think about
it, 99% of the news we hear or read is bad news. Starting the day
with bad news does not seem to be a sensible thing to do.
A religious connection is also recommended. Being part of a
religious group with its singing, sacraments, chanting, prayers
and meditations foster inner peace.
Manage your time. Time is invaluable and too important to waste.
Time management can be viewed as a list of rules that involves
scheduling, setting goals, planning, creating lists of things to
do and prioritizing.
These are the core basics of time management
that should be understood to develop an efficient personal time
management skill. These basic skills can be fine tuned further to
include the finer points of each skill that can give you that
extra reserve to make the results you desire.
Laugh and laugh heartily everyday. Heard a good joke? Tell your
friends or family about it. As they also say -'Laughter is the
best medicine'.
Express your feelings, affections, friendship and passion to
people around you. They will most likely reciprocate your actions.
Try not to keep pent up anger of frustrations, this is bad for
your health. Instead find ways of expressing them in a way that
will not cause more injury or hurt to anyone.
Working hard brings tremendous personal satisfaction.
It gives a
feeling of being competent in finishing our tasks. Accomplishments
are necessary for all of us, they give us a sense of value. Work
on things that you feel worthy of your time.
Learning is a joyful exercise. Try and learn something new
everyday. Learning also makes us expand and broaden our horizons.
And could also give us more opportunities in the future.
Run, jog, walk and do other things that your body was made for.
Feel alive.
Avoid exposure to negative elements like loud
noises, toxins and hazardous places.
These are the few simple things you can do everyday to be happy.
And always remember the quote from Abraham Lincoln, he says that,
"Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to
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